Tuesday, January 18, 2011
Kiss! shhhhhhhh!
As I watched this movie the other day, I started to wonder if you should tell or not. Im all for telling if you have cheated on your significant other by having sex with another person. Here is where the dilemma comes in for me. If you were to kiss another person should you tell or not? A kiss can sometimes be more intimate than sex but a kiss is easier to do than to go through the process of taking off clothes and exchanging sex faces. If you tell, your significant other may never trust you again. You may have been caught up in the moment and you realized, this is not what I want and it will never happen again. Sometimes you have to experience things to know if they are really for you or not. Do you tell them because you dont want any secrets and you want them to be able to trust that you will not lie to them? Maybe you want to be totally honest to ensure that that kiss reaffirmed your feelings for them. Would you take a chance on losing that person forever or spare what you believe to be insignificant in your feelings toward your significant other?
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I say, keep your mouth shut. The only time I think you should say something is if you think you have serious feelings for this person. At this point I think you should be honest and tell your partner, but if you're drunk and you're at a party and you slip up and have a smack on the lips, no. What someone doesn't know won't harm them. BUT if you're out together with this "friend" and you kiss which turns into making out and you're about to have sex, but for someone reason don't.....you might wanna say something because there's something lacking in your relationship for you to be going astray like that.
So is kissing a drinking decease? Lol...seriously, I see what you're trying to say tho. If it's insignificant then it's insignificant. What if its with someone you previously had a crush on? Does it make a difference then; do you tell?
Don't say anything! Trust me you will only be giving your partner leverage to use against you later. I agree with Southern Belles, just keep your mouth shut!
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