You meet someone while you're out. The person seems cool. The first conversation goes well. You guys seem to be on the same page. The second conversation starts the same way. However, somewhere in between where do you see yourself in 5 years and and your ex, this person has discovered that you may be the one. While your glad someone is into you, it seems a little premature to profess feelings. You knew that late night conversations sometimes pulls down the walls of security but this is a little different. "We alright but we have not even got to being cool yet. Slow down baby girl." I can image how women must feel. You have that conversation about where you work and the next day you get flowers. Maybe, he shows up for a surprise lunch date. Your response might be "WTF!" His reasoning might be, "just wanted to do something nice for you." The intentions are great but you have not decided if you like him or not.
Meeting new people and dating is basically like rolling dice, more often than not you end up with snake eyes. If the first date goes alright, you go on a second date to roll your point back. By the third date you have crapped out and have to start all over again. It's not easy to roll that 7 or 11 but not impossible. You may have to crap out a few times before you hit.
For those who don't get the dice reference, Just keep dating. You are going to have great dates and bad dates hopefully you meet "The One"
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